Like probably yourself, I take delight in variation and change which allow me to explore a (possibly new) lover and perhaps also a new location. It takes two to tango, and being on a joint trail of discovery is a thing not only shared but doubly pleasurable. I am Lana Silverberg and here is my interview.
On your Twitter account you describe yourself as an “Elite Dominatrix and Courtesan, International Travel Companion, Tease & Denial Goddess”. How did this all start? What’s your story?
I had fantasies about being a courtesan long before I took steps to become one. I explored the power of my sexuality and discovered the pleasure of participating in taboo encounters. I thrived on the rush, the thrill. Soon after, I started to offer courtesan services to men and enjoyed it more and more. I like to be in control. I like to be the one who leads the session, and I enjoy taking care of a man in that sense. I love teasing, playing, providing deep and penetrating eye contact that teases a man until he’s frustrated and eager. That is such a turn on for me! Bringing out my wild side helped turn my sessions more and more playful and intense. At the same time, many of my clients wanted to spice up our dates with light dominance and my wild side was given more space to play.
You are a courtesan on one hand and on the other hand, you dominate men as a Dominatrix. Why don’t you choose just one of these worlds?
I enjoy playing with a variety of erotic pleasures. Variation keeps things both spicy and sweet. I get to enjoy my soft, sensitive side and kick it up a notch with kinky play, too. Sometimes, I’m the bridge for beginners to BDSM. Many of my clients who first met me as a courtesan have gone on to explore fantasies that they did not know they had.
Most dominatrices tease their slaves with their body – but a slave can never have them. You don’t follow this concept as you offer the unique Girlfriend Experience (GFE). Of course, you can do this, sure but could you explain your idea or feeling behind this?
I like to explore erotic play in different ways. I crave variety and role-playing different scenarios is a great way to get that.
My idea is to be a guide for my guests. I guide them toward their and my pleasurable sensations. Sometimes frustration can also be pleasurable. I like to experiment with my lovers and slaves to find out what makes them tick.
I enjoy being the confident, dominant girlfriend as well as a cruel dominatrix. My lover or slave can choose his fantasies/interests from my list and I will create a session that fulfils both his and my desires.
Are there guests who mix these two worlds? For example, first they meet the Dominatrix and then the Courtesan?
Yes! There are lots of possibilities when picking the best from these words. First, a cruel dominatrix who challenges my guests with lots of teasing, denial and pain, but then moves to a more intimate and erotic experience to ease them back down. I’ve also done the opposite. First, the sweet and innocent girl who seduces a man and later takes advantage of him. There are lots of possibilities to explore that dynamic.
I see on Twitter that you travel the world. Singapore, Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane… How many suitcases did you take and when will you come home to Stockholm?
I have two suitcases and only one-way tickets so far. I’m always ready for an adventure. Travelling and excitement are in my blood.
What do you love about travelling?
When I travel, there’s an intense stimulation of all my senses, inspiring environments, delicious and decadent foods. I love to explore new cultures and arts. All of this gives me new ideas for play time and even more erotic experiences.
Did you have an interesting experience or observation on your journey you want to share with us?
In my experience, I’ve noticed that people who choose to live out their fantasies and explore taboos in a consensual setting tend to become healthier, happier and more satisfied. That’s a big deal in today’s repressed society and learning to let go, release control and simply be in the moment under the cruel and attentive hands of your dominatrix or courtesan can be a wonderfully stress-relieving experience.
You have played with subs all over the world. Are there any differences?
Humans are humans no matter where they hail from. We all have needs, desires and fantasies. Where you were born or where you live now doesn’t necessarily change who you are at your core. So, no. There isn’t much difference in the human condition from one country to the next.
What can you tell us about the BDSM-scene in Stockholm?
The BDSM scene in Stockholm has been growing over the last few years and dominant ladies are in high demand. People are becoming more open to the idea of relinquishing control and exploring deeper parts of their sexuality. There’s an awakening happening and I’m thrilled to be a part of it.
Lana, what do you do in your spare time and what are your plans for the future?
I read books, play with my girlfriends and dance. I love being outdoors and connecting with nature. Sensual and pleasurable experiences are all around us, we just have to be willing to be open to them.
I have been having an amazing time exploring the world and myself and I have no intentions of stopping now. I plan to continue my exploration of more ways to spice up my everyday life, my play time, and my experiences in the world meeting new people.
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